Teaching a Child to Ride a Bike without Training Wheels

by TheNanny612 on June 1, 2009

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I remember when I was little and my mom taught me how to ride a bike without training wheels. Actually, I remember it quite vividly. How can I not? I still have a few scars on my knees to prove it.

My mom and I out in our back alley of my childhood home. Her running behind me while holding me up and then all of a sudden I realize she is no longer hold me up and I immediately panic and fall over.

I remember the fear I felt when I realized she wasn’t holding me up any longer. I also remember me yelling at my mom in the most dramatic fashion when I blamed her for me falling and hurting myself. But, what I remember most importantly is thee feeling of accomplishment when I was able to ride on my own.

 

I know my mom taught me how to ride my bike how most parents teach their children how to ride a bike. My mom didn’t do anything wrong. After all, children learn by trial and error. From falling I learned how to balance better. I learned what worked and didn’t work. I learned that I didn’t want to fall anymore…. falling hurt. But, I kept at it because I wanted so badly to ride my bike on my own… without training wheels.

I had decided that there must be another way to teach our children how to ride a bike without training wheels. I understood that my children needed to learn balance. That in order to learn balance there must be some falling. But, I wanted to teach my children how to do this with less injuries. And, I did just that. How? By teaching my children the first few days how to ride bike on the grass.

On the grass? Yep.

Steps I used to Teach my Kids how to Ride Bike without Pain

  • I didn’t start them too early - They had to understand a bit of balance. They trained hard on Training wheels for some time. We also made sure to raise the training wheels every so often as they got use to them. By the time we removed them from our children’s bikes they were at the highest level possible and the kids were no longer relying on them for balance as much.

  • Started on the Grass - The first few days of training was spent on the grass. This way they were learn balance, but their falls would be much less painful… macadam hurts.

  • Slight Decline on Grass - My background seemed to be the perfect spot for the kids to learn how to ride bike. There was a very slight decline in the yard which gave them a little momentum without making them go to fast.

  • They Need to Know How to Brake - Before the training wheels come off the kids need to know how to brake. I practiced a long time with my children on breaking…. way before the training wheels come off. And, this is necessary. When the training wheels come off you will find that your kids will be concentrating so hard on balancing that they will occasionally forget the things they already learned. You don’t want them to have to worry about learning balancing and breaking at once.

  • Don’t expect too much - I went into this event know there would be some falls, some laughter and probably even some tears. And, that is exactly what happened. The day will have his challenges, but you will find more than that there will be ample rewards too.

  • Celebrate Even the Littlest of Things - This project is a true challenge for the kids. Not only is it difficult to learn, but it can be a bit scary for the kids. So, celebrate even the tiniest of advances. If they stayed up for 20 seconds celebrate it. Be a cheerleader for your child.

  • Inspect the Bike before Training -Make sure all the bolts are tightened and the chains are greased. This way the bike rides as smoothly as possible. Nothing will cause your child to be super scared of riding their bike than to have them fall due to a bolt coming loose. Do not skip this step!!

  • Tell them what you are doing through Every Step - I made sure to tell my children exactly what I was doing every step of the way. Don’t let go without your child knowing that was going to happen. My mom did that to me and the minute I saw she wasn’t holding me anymore…. I’d fall due to panic. Let your child know what you are doing right before you do it.

  • Reminder Child to Always Look Straight Ahead - This might seem obvious to us, but to a child it is not. You will find that your child will be tempted to look at their feet while they are pedaling or to look back to see if you are still holding them. Constantly remind your child to look straight ahead. Not only is this important so they don’t hit into anything, but this will help your child keep the bike balanced as well.

  • Hold your Child Correctly - When you are holding your child up and running behind them you will be tempted to hold them on the back of the seat and handle bars. But, your child will not be able to learn balancing well this way and it will be impossible for the child to learn how to steer as well. Make sure to hold your child up by holding the back of the bike seat and their shoulder or sweatshirt.

  • Dress your Child Well - Make sure that your child doesn’t wear anything that you don’t mind getting grass stained or torn. Plus, you want the less skin showing as possible. Long pant and a Sweat shirt work great. This way if they fall they will be less apt to get cuts and scrapes and be frightened to get back on.

Also, if you do not have a nice area of grass suitable for teaching your child to ride a bike and must do it on macadam please make sure to have elbow and knee pads. Plus, it is imperative that you don’t skip out on the helmet even if you are riding on the grass. Any fall can cause head injury without the proper protective gear.

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{ 11 comments… read them below or add one }

Elizabeth June 1, 2009 at 2:38 pm

All I can say is.. awwwwww :)

Lori June 1, 2009 at 10:23 pm

Love this idea, Shana. I wish I had thought of it when I was teaching my son - he took some painful falls on the sidewalk. Also I think we started him too soon.

With my daughter, we’re going to take our time and not rush her - and use the grass, too :)

TheNanny612 June 2, 2009 at 7:50 am

@Elizabeth - Thanks…I’m glad you enjoyed it. :)

@Lori - Honestly, I love using the grass to teach children to ride their bikes. That’s how we taught Austin (now 13) too. Not all grassy back yards are ideal, but one just cut, tiny decline and few bumps is perfect. Even if they tumble they are less apt to get hurt and more inclined to keep pushing at it with fewer tears. That’s a win-win for everybody. Good luck with your daughter. :)

Leroy Latty June 2, 2009 at 10:42 am

Two days ago I looked at our freshly cut grass that seemed cut to a perfect carpet pile, thanks to our kind neighbor and my thoughts rushed back some twenty five years to the perfectly cut lawn of a golf course where I learned to ride a bike. We pushed the bikes to the top of a mound. I mounted and my cousin pushed and I remembered my feet automatically pedalling at the bottom of the hill. I got instant balance from the momentum, I was injected with courage and confidence and the rest is history. Thanks for your blog and the confirmation that our precious ground and grass serve this purpose of helping our children to master a life long skill.

wallaby June 19, 2009 at 4:47 pm

Better yet use a balance bike or just remove the pedals, crank and chain from a regular bike and let the child scoot and blance on it until they are confident. They learn to balance this way and moving to a bike with pedals is a piece of cake.

It is a very popular method in the UK and Europe and does not require you to actually go through the problems of teaching (and falling). My oldest son used to just pick up speed by scooting and he’d then just glide down small slopes with his feet up. Whe he got a “real” bike when he was four it was a cinch. He was off and riding in a couple minutes.

Here are a couple US places that sell balance bikes (but like I said, just take off the cranks, pedals and chain yourself if you want to):

http://stridersports.com/

http://www.runbikes.com/

http://www.toysrus.com/family/index.jsp?categoryId=3516340

and here is the newer version of the one we got in the uk (youngest now using it successfully!): http://www.islabikes.co.uk/bike_pages/rothan.html

Jennifer June 28, 2009 at 10:52 pm

This is indeed a brilliant idea, Shana. So simple yet something that never crossed my mind, lol.
I got a huge backyard and I will make sure to make good use of it. Grass stained clothes beats blood stained ones! :-)
Thanks for sharing that.

Mark August 26, 2009 at 1:56 pm

Hey, great read !! We taught my son at 2 1/2, believe it or not. He wanted to try because his cousin who had just turned 4 learned how to. We pushed him around the house, letting go for a few seconds here and there. Ater about 30 mins he could ride. He was too little to reach the ground enough to stop without falling overthough. lol So I would stand at one end of the driveway,and my wife on the other. That was at my parents, out of state. Our house has a big hill. So he didnt get to ride at all for a long time. Now he’s 4 and needs training wheels again. You may want edit “break” to “brake”.

Ginger August 26, 2009 at 6:19 pm

Great idea, I was wanting to teach my 3 yr old son to ride a bike without training wheels period. That’s the way they learned in the old days before they invented the training wheels and I didn’t know about a balance bike or that you could teach them without all the stuff on a reg. bike. Wonder if he is too young to teach right now. We sure don’t have an ideal yard though. I guess we could try to find someone who does. I sure don’t want him falling down on the street or the sidewalk that’s just not safe enough on our street. We could go to a park maybe and do it. Thanks for the ideas. We do have a bike for him but his legs are a bit short for it right now but in a year yeah he might be big enough to learn then. But I don’t want to wait too long to teach him while he is in the window of learning stage for everything they say the best window of learning is from birth to about 5 that’s when the learn the best and the easiest. Any way with learning like reading and such not sure that applies to this or not. Well, thanks again. Ginger :)

Evhen August 31, 2009 at 8:46 am

I’ll second the comment about using a balance bike. Both of my sons taught themselves to ride on their own using balance bikes! You can get more info and see videos of toddlers riding balance bikes (with no training wheels) at http://squidoo.com/learntorideabike

Leanne September 7, 2009 at 12:12 am

Totally second the balance bike. My 3 yr old got one for his third birthday. Within a week he was scooting around it faster than I can walk. Now at 3.5 he is so confident he puts both feet up and glides for 20-30 feet and then just puts his foot down when he stops, like a motorcycle rider. He also is showing he can balance with just one hand steering! Ours is a Miniglider. There is a comparison site at http://runbikes.com that shows all the wooden and metal ones available. Ours is red metal with a handbrake, footpegs and solid tires (no air! no chains! no mechanical parts!) My son totally loves to be using a 2 wheeler like a big boy, and I think he is ready for pedals.

Joy Anderson September 17, 2009 at 11:30 pm

Your post is great! It gives me an idea how to teach my 5-year old son to ride a bike.

Thanks for sharing it.

-Joy

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